One of my favorite saying for any student who talks to me is, "Congratulations, you're gifted." When I say this to students, I am trying to encourage them to get involved in Ministry--or
Discover their SHAPE. (Just an acronym, which I like to use once in a while!)
I have had some strange experiences after saying this to a few students. One student, Jeff, got real excited and went home and told his mom. He switched to all College Prep courses because he thought I meant he was "exceptionally gifted" or smart. Later that week he failed all his tests, dropped out of school, and began selling hemp bracelets at Lake Forest mall.
Kayla, another student who mistook me, thought I was being sarcastic (where would she
ever get and idea that I would be sarcastic) and ran out of the room in tears. Little did I know, she rode the short bus to school because of a small learning disability she had ever since transferring in from being homeschooled.
But every once in a while you get a Tom. He took this statement to understand that he had a special SHAPE that God had given him so he started collecting shoes for homeless people and started a brand new ministry.
I have to tell you about this one--this other student, Matt, agreed when I said he was gifted. But his gifting was something I would have never guessed. He could tell you what you had for lunch simply by smelling your flagalents. Gross, I know, but I knew this man had a future in youth ministry. I liked him so much I eventually decided to hire him to be our High School Pastor (though he has since shared that his special gift has disappeared and thus he must resign his post!)